A FIGHT WITH YOUR BELOVED
I really don’t know how many times this had happened since our marriage in 2004.
I missed the number of how many times had we yelled at each other.
From the day we haven’t any kids since we have two of them.
Have you ever wonder why you should have a fight with your beloved?
Even if he/she is your spause, your best friend, your co-worker, your brother/sister, your parents, your neighbours??
I just saw an episode of Teguh.. (I don’t know his sure name) He’s really have many good things to say. To support us. In our personal life, work space, or any place you just been.
He just said,’we only have one glass. just fill it with good deeds, then there will be no bad things could even fill you in!’ It surely easy to hear but I just DAMN HARD to do. Especially when you feel HURT.
Yup. When you feel hurt, it really hard to do good things. Even to yourself!
I don’t know if this thing happen to you people, but it surely happen to me.
Someone hurt me, my spause?my friend? my co-worker?sister? brother? anyone?
BAM! Everything feel claudy. Feel empty. Should I hurt him/her back? Nop! I can’t.
Coz, it won’t make me feel better. It will get me worse!! Something bad just add my day if I did that.
True! It’s true..
A friend who talks to me, maybe can heal me
A nice song in my ears, maybe it can soothe me
A saying of sorry, maybe this will get me much better
A lucky thing happens to me, hmmm… the day seems brighter
A smile to me, it surely helps..
A call from an old friend of mine? Try me!
Feeling blue?
All you need is a nice glue
to put a saying in your computer
“HEY! JUST PUT YOUR SMILE ON! THEN YOU WILL GET BETTER! TRY IT! NOW!!!”
Hmmm
sound stupid?
Try it on your own!
tell me if it’s works!
